For many men when they are single, meeting women can be a real chore. It almost gets to the level of becoming a full time job that you cant quit if you want to maintain the hope of meeting the right woman. Going out night after night, going to club after club, facing rejection after rejection. This hard way of life can turn very frustrating.

And yes, people can sense that frustration on a man. Most men can, and women definitely can sense it. One thing you should remember is that you always project your attitude to the world around you at all times. This means that if you always look like you're frustrated and bored, people wont get around you very easy because they will feel you may drag them down into your same mood.

But if you go out with ulterior motives to meeting women, like going to a club because there's a band there you want to see, etc., you put yourself in a position where you can enjoy yourself whether you meet women or not. This means you will project a "happy-go-lucky" attitude, though its hard to get into this mood all the time. And it's especially hard to do it at will.

That's why, if you're doing things you enjoy along with your date hunting, you wont have to worry about working to feel good, because it'll come naturally to you. And you'll be able to carry those feelings with you wherever you go. A practical truth says: A guy who's having fun is infinitely more attractive than one who isn't. That is why the so called fun factor is very important when meeting women.

It is known that women are empathetic creatures by nature, they are more in tune with their emotions and the emotions of people around them. When you're having fun and projecting that attitude, the women around you will pick up on it and be drawn to you because they sense the pleasurable energy, as opposed to being frustrated and nervous, which almost always pushes others away from you.