Dear Zannah, I met this guy and I just couldn't contain myself. It felt like fireworks the second we spotted each other. Unfortunately, after spending the evening together I let him come in for what was supposed to be coffee and probably over indulged. The next day we went to the beach and met some of his friends. I started to feel uncomfortable because they were so grungy looking. He wasn't, but they were. We stopped by his house to get a change of clothes and his place was a wreck. He lives alone. It was a total turn off. Help! I really like him otherwise. Am I being too picky? Jessica from Vancouver Dear Jessica Often times the polarity or pull that we feel gets a little disruptive when it comes to being reasonable. This can result in giving too much too soon and before you know it, we are with someone we can't be with long term. Result, two hearts end up broken. Not good. The wonderful magnetism that is so often misread as healthy instinct unfortunately, is not the only thing required for a healthy relationship. In your case, it's not that you're picky but that your picker is off. You have a maximum attraction and an alchemical incompatibility with this person. Unfortunately,one must know their range of tolerance and this is easily identified with the Knowledge of Y.O.U. Alchemical incompatibility is the number one reason for failed relationships. If we go a hair outside our range of tolerance, the boat will tip over. Know your range and you'll be fine. Seems you have the polarity part down intuitively. I suggest you not invite anyone into your field of intimacy until other elements are deemed suitable. Thoughtfully, Zannah ATTEND A SEMINAR TODAY. Visit the website: http://www.ancientwisdomofmatchmaking.com |
