This week let's talk about what I call the "smothering technique" to turn women off and drive them away from you.

This is how I describe this technique: After first meeting a girl, you call her all the time, sometimes twice or more a day at her work and at home. And when you can't reach her, you get all upset.

You keep thinking to yourself, where in the hell is she? Is she seeing someone else, is she trying to avoid me, has she lost interest in me, etc. You just keep worrying and worrying. When you do get in touch with her you ask her, "Where have you been, I've been trying to get in touch with you!"

And you keep repeating this pattern of calling her all the time to where it reaches the point where you become a pest. She is totally turned off and needs her space and all you are doing is driving her further away from you.

Please, guys don't do this! It's only going to backfire when you try to smoother her. How often should you call? Just call her every other day will be just fine and don't linger on the phone for hours as if you had nothing better to do with your life and your whole world revolves around her. Just keep it brief and say what you have to say.

By not calling so often this will make her think about you. She will be wondering what you're doing and she might even wonder why you haven't called and that's good because it gets her to thinking about you.